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15-Oct-2017 23:42

Although a fair few of the people my age I’m referring to happen to be guys, I’ve noticed that a lot of them in this age bracket are still unmarried.I know guys tend to get married a little later than girls, but it doesn’t seem to make much difference in this case.Or am I the abnormal one, being selfish for wanting to lead my life with a purpose different from those set by my parents and society?I’ve noticed another trend; people my age are being ‘skipped’ and their younger siblings are getting married before them. I feel like I’m stuck in the middle; on one hand, I’m open to marriage but don’t feel like I’m ready just yet.I’m still nowhere near the point of getting married, nor have I started looking. It’s not even like I tried and failed – I just haven’t been looking. Instead, I bumbled through life and here we are, many years later.I don’t feel stressed about it like I did before though, but it’s obviously something that’s always at the back of my mind. I just turned around and said no I’m not, and that if it’s a problem, then I won’t bother turning up to the next one. Just like I’ve explained in previous posts, I’m not against marriage. But I had to sort out other aspects of my life first before even thinking about it. And yes, I know I’m getting old and that I should get a move on. My best friend always helps me put things into perspective though.

I can’t really say 2017 has been a good year for me, but it’s certainly looking up, so I’ll try to keep this in mind whenever I feel down thinking about the past. It consists of 80% work, 10% ‘fun’, 5% spending time with family and the final 5%, hiding from the world.Whereas these young’uns are in their early to mid 20’s.